Sensual Massage

It feels very good when lightly brush the genitals when going down to the legs. Come up the legs from the feet with gliding strokes working the knees and applying firm pressure inside the thighs to the perineum. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, gliding back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This teasing process can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus. Ask your permission to go further. The rest of the session will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations. One of the skills that come with experience is being able to read the energy and arousal levels of YOU and smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing to more arousing.
The basic principle of male genital stroking is that it should do YOU slow, stop, or change what is being done just before ejaculation becomes inevitable. The best way to accomplish this is for YOU to give a signal just before this point is reached. Verbal cues, raising a hand, pulling away slightly, or even subtle body language cues can all work well. This repeated “peaking” process can sometimes help YOU learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, and can also be practiced during solo masturbation. Although delaying ejaculation during the course of the stroking is desirable from the perspective of maximizing pleasure, most do like to finish with one. Ejaculation provides a considerable spark of pleasure, but can leave YOU too fatigued to enjoy the rest of the evening.

It’s also fun to encourage YOU with hot talk (possibly weaving together a verbal fantasy based on YOUR desires). Letting one know verbally and non-verbally that you’re actively enjoying this pleasure can be a powerful aphrodisiac.

As an aside, it should be noted that a nice feature of male genital stroking is that an erection is not required for it to feel good; some strokes actually feel BETTER when the penis is soft.
There are many different strokes that feel good on male genitals. Unless YOU indicate otherwise, it’s usually safe to assume that firm and consistent stroking will feel best. I’m going to present a few favorite strokes below.

One approach that some people favor, is selecting two favorite strokes, and for a period of time alternating between them every once in a while.

“Healing Stroke” - With the penis resting on the belly, cup the balls with one hand. The heel of the palm of the other hand glides up and down the underside of the penis all the way to the tip.

“Anvil Stroke” - Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat the stroke, creating an alternating motion.

“Climbing the Mountain” - Take the penis in one hand and gently, sensuously caress it for about ten seconds, then give it one quick up-and-down stroke. Repeat the sensuous caressing for about ten seconds (perhaps using slow up-and-down strokes), and then give the penis two quick up-and-down strokes. Repeat the caressing, give three quick strokes, etc. Continue until ejaculation approaches inevitability.

Cocooning
it is up to YOU whether to finish with an ejaculation. If YOU do, then pleasuring can continue all the way through ejaculation and until YOU ask me to stop. At the end of the massage (whether or not there is an ejaculation), the sheet/blanket combination can be folded up over YOU on the table to provide a warm cocoon. This can be a time of profound peace and contentment.
Using an advanced technique in male genital massage is to stimulate YOUR prostate gland at the same time as stimulating the penis. This can be done with a finger an inch or two inside YOUR anus, pressing on the dome shape found in the direction of the penis. When stimulating the prostate, gloves, and or finger condoms, Short fingernails and use lots of lube. Part of what some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom. By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning, one may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context. Pressing on the prostate gland during ejaculation, or when a man is close to ejaculation, it feels wonderful. It is also possible for some men to have ejaculatory orgasms through prostate stimulation alone.

Also rub the perineum, possibly with an oiled fist or several fingers if YOU are not comfortable with insertion. For some men, this may stimulate the prostate gland. Important to wrap an index finger and thumb around the penis between the balls and the body. Contract index and thumb slightly to form a living cock ring. Alternatively, this can be done between the balls and the shaft, rather than between the balls and the body. Gently tugging on the hair covering the testicles. Cup or tickle the testicles.

Wet and warm wishes,

Roxi